Normally I would not feel right about bitching about my ex to anyone yet alone in public for the world to hear (or see in this case) but damn it he's earned it.
To start with last month he told me last month that he was going to maybe miss a child support payment. He said tell him as soon as I find out that I didn't get paid. So on the 10th when I didn't get an email saying that the child support was going to be deposited, I called him and told him. He told me that he was going to go to the office and pay on Monday. Knowing how he forgets things (he even forgets Owen's birthday but never Ian's [his son from his first marriage who is 3 years older than Owen]) I called him Monday night to make sure that he did pay. He didn't answer so I left a message. Tuesday I called again to check again no answer so I left a message and a few texts. I know I am starting to get sound bitchy, but he know that I have spent what little bit I had saved (for things like this) going back and forth to Pittsburgh that few months several times a week. I tried calling him all day on Wednesday but his phone was off. Anyway I didn't hear back from until this morning Sunday the 17th a week since he told me that he would take care of it. I sent him a text about 0400 this morning after washing out poopy underwear again since we are out of goodnite. He sent one back complaining about it being 0400. Which I replied that I was washing underwear. Than after 0800 he sent a text saying that if I'm miserable everyone else has to be too. That is just not the case, cause if he would have paid Owen would have been in nite time undies which means that I would not have been scrubbing undies, Since I wouldn't have been scrubbing undies I would have need to text him at 0400 to ask if he paid his child support yet?
His dad is always ME ME ME ME!! He blows Owen off to go hang out with friends and it my fault because Owen doesn't understand why dad wants to see his friends and not his own son. Last year he had all his facebook friends and then girlfriend email me and bitch me out because I didn't force Owen to go see his dad for his birthday. Here is what happened last year. First he wants to see Owen a week before his birthday, his excuse for not being able to see him on his birthday. He had to go down to VA, to see Ian at Military school the week of Owen's birthday since it was the only time that he would be aloud to see Ian all summer. To make it up to Owen, he asked if Owen could stay the night with him after the 3 of us went to dinner. Which I said yes and after about 40 texts of him making sure and saying my he leaves it at that and I don't hear from him until 2300 the night before we were to do Owen's birthday dinner. The text was asking to move dinner to lunch and I said ok and then asked if he was just going to take Owen with him after lunch or should I drop him off later for their sleepover. His answer Owen wasn't going to sleep over and that was NEVER part of the plan. We went back and forth over that for about an hour before I turned off the phones cause I was tired of his shit. The next morning Owen wakes up early all excited about getting to see dad and staying the night with him. When I told him that things had changed and it was just going to be lunch, he went off on me screaming that I did something to make daddy mad. I always ruin things for him to see his dad cause I never want him to be happy. Okay, after 10 years of ALWAYS being the bad guy and taking blame for EVERYTHING when Corey stands Owen up or changes the plans. I showed Owen the text messages from his dad where HE was the one changing things and saying that he never said that Owen was to stay the night. Because it was DAD who changed the plans Owen wanted nothing to do with him. I tried to get him to go but he was so mad that he said he didn't have a dad anymore.
So later that day I start getting all this nasty email both my regular email and facebook about how I am the biggest bitch in the world. Telling me that I had no right to so Owen text messages between his dad and I. That Corey, should take me to court and get full custody of Owen, since I am refusing to allow Owen to see his dad and telling him lies about his dad. I talked to several of Owen's doctors and therapist and his case manager and they all said that I did the right thing. That my taking the blame for everything his dad does is just making Owen's and mines relationship impossible to live in. But to Corey's friends I was the bitch and wrong.
What's really funny about last years birthday is that when Corey was done with that girlfriend he cheated on her (that is his MO he gets tired of someone and instead of saying its over like an adult he cheats) so she emailed me telling me that he's an ass and a cheater and was probably cheating on her with me. When I reminded her that I know Corey is a cheater, hello he cheated on me with a 16 year old so I know he is a cheating jerk. She asked why I didn't let Owen go see his brother for his birthday. When she asked me that my jaw hit the floor. Here his dad told me that he had to celebrate Owen's birthday a week early because he had to go down to VA to see Ian at military school. I told her that Owen didn't want to go after he read that his dad never said he could stay the night. And that Ian was to be in VA, that's why it was early. I didn't hear back from her.
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